While women often
feel objectified and
only valued by outer
appearances, it seems
we ladies are just as
guilty as over-
romanticizing an ideal
man.
It leaves us disappointed
and leaves the good men,
yes there are real good
men, at bay. So if you find
a man with all the qualities
you've ever wanted him in
a man, to avoid a rude
awakening, expect him to
do the following.
A real man…
Gets annoyed. Especially
when you want his
attention during that
football game or when he
is playing video games.
Come on ladies, you know
his video gaming time is
precious and you knew all
week about that game.
That is not the moment to
test his devotion to you, in
fact, you're likely to lose
his attention to that game,
his boys or the video
game. If it's not your thing
to sit and watch or play
with him, let him have it.
He'll thank you later.
Can't read your mind.
Perhaps superman can try,
but if you're angry and not
willing to talk about it,
odds are it'll fly over your
man's head. And if it
doesn't, well, he might shy
away from asking you
about it. So speak up at
the right time. Emotions can
be scary but a real man
can also face them.
Can change. We focus
sometimes on what a real
man is not. But people live,
learn and grow. That "boy"
you despised in grade
school could be a real man
now. Real men are just
that, real, which means
they have their issues,
some baggage and have
made mistakes. You know
you've met a good man
when he's come out of
some hard times
successfully.
Fights back. When you're
wrong you're wrong and if
you're dead wrong, don't
expect your guy to just let
things slide. Don't be so
surprised if your guy
pushes your buttons when
you're pushing his. And if
he's man enough to tell
you the hard truth, listen.
Tough love is still good
love.
Works hard. Real men are
ambitious and goal
oriented. No matter class,
ethnicity or opposition, you
can count on a real man to
get things done or die
trying. The fight in a man
makes him moreso than the
money in his pocket.
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